Just found this pic after so long but couldn't remember time tu Aisy bape bulan .
Yes I am bored.Went to see Dr Idris yesterday and was thinking to be induced sbb semalam tarikh lawa kan?08/07/08 haha..tapi he said tunggu je le dulu until the time comes and it will not be that long.....sigh.
Anyway, this week I got 4-day-MC.Counting days.Haha.........bored bored bored dunno what to do.
Help!

Hehe rajinnye aku update FP.Kat ofis pun da tade keje sbb org da tanak bagi aku keje sbbnye ye le..i nak deliver anytime je pun.So aku dtg keje ...melepak sampai bosan tatau nak buat ape.. .Perhaps I should go out and watch movie or do some last minute shopping... .

Anyway, the other day I went for a financial seminar(27/5-28/5) which was really good and an eye opening. The seminar is free dan dibuat utk ex-skoler TM.I am glad I went for the seminar.Byk sgt benda belajar though some of the things mmg sudah tau but in the seminar it gave more detail explanation on each of the topics.

By the way, the new thing for me is actually the Estate Planning. I didn't know how important Estate Planning is until I went for the course.

And I learn that hutang is really a big thing in Islam. Sampaikan before the pusaka can be distributed, kena settlekan utang2 si mati baru boleh diagih2kan kepada pihak keluarga.

Estate distibution for muslims - four steps for distribution of muslims estate before the estate can be distributed to the legal heirs based on faraid
1. funeral expenses
2. debt settlement
3. harta sepencarian
4. wasiat
5. faraid

And selepas tu i did some research in the net and I found this

Quote:

Berdosa besar bagi orang yang sengaja tidak membayar hutang. Seseorang yang suka melewat-lewatkan bayaran hutang setelah berkemampuan untuk membayar-nya, boleh mendatangkan kesan buruk dalam hidupnya bukan sahaja di dunia bahkan di akhirat antaranya : i. Hidup akan ditimpa kehinaan dan hilang maruahnya. ii. Hidup mereka tidak akan mendapat keredhaan dan keberkatan Allah. iii. Perbuatan mereka itu digolongkan dalam perbuatan zalim. iv. Amalan kebajikan mereka tidak akan diterima. Sabda Rasul S.A.W. Maksudnya : "Penangguhan hutang oleh orang yang berkuasa membayarnya, adalah satu kezaliman, halal maruah dan hukuman ke atasnya (iaitu pemberi hutang boleh mengambil tindakan ke atas diri dan maruahnya) (Riwayat Ibnu Majah) Sabda Rasul S.A.W. Maksudnya : "Kurangkan dirimu daripada melakukan dosa, maka akan mudahlah bagimu ketika hendak mati. Kurangkan daripada berhutang nescaya kamu akan hidup bebas". (Riwayat Baihaqi)

Uish cuaks siyut!!
Senang cite..utang ni tak boleh di bawa mati beb.Unless org yg kite berhutang itu halalkan.
So now aku kena cari sape2 yg pernah aku berhutang dulu, I need to repay all the debts sbb ye le mana le tau ajal kita bile akan sampai kan..

So to those yg berhutang juge, do settle your hutang dan jgn bebankan waris kita dgn beban hutang..sbb dlm seminar tu dia kate...ada jutawan ni, byk sgt utang dan warisnya ingat dornag boleh dpt byk harta..end up dorang yg kena tanggung beban hutang... ..what a pity.

4th July?Independence day of US?hehe wouldn't know..and couldn't be bothered. Well actually is not about US independence day I was thinking about...it's just about cycle of life.

Biasa la nak dekat2 due, doctor will usually give the pregnant ladies MCs( Yey!) so this week I got 3 day-MC (best gile) from 2/7-4/7. So the 1st day MC tu siap aku boleh gi tgk wayang sorang2...sbb nak tunggu Aspa (since the first day was the day I visited my gynae) and had to wait for Aspa to finish his office hour...so he dropped me at the Sunway Pyramid. So kinda saiko gak le a pregnant lady who is about to deliver anytime gi tgk wayang sorang2...cite Wanted pule tu(action movie beb, best gak le cite die ). Well Aspa ckp tape le pi sana at least the whole cinema can help me if the time comes (nak terberanak le tuuu)..so i was thinking...betul juga tu...haha.

Anyway the last 2 days I spent at home doing nothing but watched movies yg Aspa download.So one of the movies was Kungfu Panda (best gak le highly recommended).
Well actually, I did a lot of thinking lately, plus all the free time I have now, it is impossible not to think about everything..especially about my life and of course the family we are building.

With the things happening around my family lately(be it bad or good), it seems that anything can happen in this world. I was thinking of how am I going to bring up my children, in what way, what is the best way?Is it according to the books?or according to what my parents have taught me?What is the best upbringing?Should we give all the love to our children or do we just love halfheartedly since looking at nowadays punye trend, it seems children seem to hurt their parents sooo much.Don't they know that the parents would do anything for them?

I know it's not good to think negative things while we are pregnant since it would indirectly affect the baby, but hey since I've got nothing to do in this past few days, thinking is the only way for me to fill the boredom. .
Even while watching Kungfu Panda, there's a scene where Tailung fought with his master, which has loved him endlessly and taught him everything about kungfu and yet because of Tailung greediness and irrational thinking(he wanted the dragon scroll and to become the dragon warrior) he could fight with his master without mercy.
So I asked Aspa, if now we love our children sooo much and would do everything for them, would they become like Tailung?Aspa just chuckled and said nothing.

But...after did some thinking...................
I think whatever happens and whatever will happen in the future...I will always love my children and there's no doubt about it.I will do whatever it takes to protect them even someday.....or somehow(god forbids) ..they would become like Tailung....or maybe be they can become like Po the BIG fat Panda (which is better)...and whatever it is I know I have loved them and brought them up in the way I think the best way for them and it's up to them how they would become in the future....as a saying in Raihan's song "Iman tak dpt diwarisi, dari seorg ayah yg bertaqwa"..not that I am saying that aku ni beriman ke ape ke...but I would really2 love if my children will become the people we will be proud of...Insyallah.

Lately, the contraction comes and goes...and my kaki.. swell big time and seriously I walk like a penguin!!aku sebenarnye da tak sabar nak deliver...just to get it over with!!!but the contraction is still inconsistent and there's no other tanda2 yg menunjukkan I should go the hospital to give labour....terasa nak suh doktor induce je...but Dr Idris said, let it be natural... Well then, guess we have to wait for a the right time to come....

We went for a few birthday parties these past few weeks. Everytime mesti tertinggal kamera...tensi2.Tapi this time round, nasib baik kamera mmg ada kat dlm kete (since we have prepared all the bags(my bag, baby's bag and also aspa's bag), just in case nak deliver anytime je ni... ) and kamera adalah salah satu benda yg wajib in the list...Therefore we have some pics of the party...yey!

We went to Afiq and Alya's birthday party di Hartamas Shopping Center...punye le tak pernah gi...sesat2 kami.Akhirnya mmg sampai lambat btui le..org da siap mkn sume..nasib baik we didn't miss the food, the game and also the candle-blowing-event.

Aisy really enjoyed herself sbb kat situ boleh main2 ball, ade slides...and some other things lagi...and of course loads of friends.

So enjoy some of the pics here!

Kami balik changlun early June aritu.Walaupun aku cam malas nak balik, sbb tak selesa of the long journey with perut yg memboyot, terpaksa le balik juge since Aspa had promised his mom that he would be home.
So balik tak lama and most of the time spent kat umah je and we went to some of Aspa's relative.
So here some pics Aisy jumpa ayam dan kejar ayam...heh.But this is not at Aspa's house le..ni kat one of the relative's.

We went to Cameron Highland. Saje je temankan family aunty Aspa yg duk Kedah.Dorang tak pernah pi Cameron.So kami ni konon jadi tourist guide yg tatau pun nak bawa dorang ni pi mana kat Cameron Highland...haha.Ye le walaupun da pi sana byk kali..tapi we usually went there for a day and tak buat ape sgt ..and gi tempat2 yg selalu pi je le.
So siap kami beli map RM2 utk tgk place of interest kat Cameron Highland tu..poyo kan?

Anyway, kami duk kat homestay..which is quite cheap(RM150/day) dan dlm tu ada 3 bilik...living room, and everything is fully furnished.So mmg ok la since total yg gi aritu pun is 10 org..termasuk kami le..

So here are some pictures.Have a look!

Aspa went to Gunung Datuk but I couldn't remember exactly the date die gi..in April kot..ke May..entah le.Gunung Datuk ni kat mana pun aku tak sure...maybe in Negeri Sembilan kot.
Die gi 1 mlm je and total yg pi the trip is 10 ppl.

So here some of the pics yg member die captured.
Kinda nice juge le

Yey Aisy da 18 bulan.
Finally, Aisy da boleh panggil aku mak...after sooooo long .
Dia boleh sebut abah, atuk, pah, nana, didi and someother names tapi mak mmg the last word die boleh sebut..sabar je le..

Lately, Aisy makin manja ngan aku.Everything nak suruh aku buat...nak kong(nak dukung), angkat (nak suruh angkat die) dan mcm2 lagi.Mmg sekarang aku da tak larat nak angkat die...da le 12 kg die sekarang ni....hehe.Tapi kadang2 kesian kat die, angkat la die...die suka nak suruh angkat kalau naik tangga sbb malas nak panjat sendiri...lepas naik half way mesti suruh angkat...ish2 sabar je le ...
Kalau duduk2 sure nak duduk kat atas my lap and bersandar...hehe maklum le da nak masuk 8 bulan..mmg tak muat le die nak bersandar2 kat atas lap ni..

Now kami jadi weekend parents...sbb Aisy sekarang da duduk ngan my parents..sbbnya...pengasuh die dulu da tak larat nak jaga die sbb kuat mengamuk...hehe..so no choice..kena antar umah mak..probably lepas dpt second child nak hire maid..yg dtg balik hari...so boleh jaga aisy n baby n kemas rumah sekali..sbb kalau nak duk sekali..mmg umah nenek kat klang tu tak cukup bilik..maklum le..kici sgt umah tu.. kena tunggu le kami beli umah..which is dunno when...

Favourite food Aisy is fish..tapi die pronounce it as Pishhhh...ahahah lawak je bile dgr die sebut tu...kalau jumpa pish...mmg tak makan nasi le...

Aisy fav song now : Burung kakak tua.
She can even sing the song!

Zana just delivered a baby girl!Bukan just le...da abis pantang pun..i think da 1 month kot...and she's going back to Singapore this Thursday and they decided to do a surprise portluck and birthday party for Zana and also her precious older daugther, Safa'.

Just a few of us...but it was great. Zana was surprised..(duh..kate surprise party.. ) and we had great time.Masing2 bawa food...and I brought tauhu rojak...I hope they enjoyed what I brought... .

Aisy really enjoyed herself (though die cam tatau sgt nak mix around with the other kids) sbb ramai kids.
Tapi die spend more time in the playground le sebenarnye(Aspa terpaksa bawa die keluar sbb Aisy asyik nak berebut brg dgn other kids.. )

Anyway zana, congratulations again!

After zana's house, kami singgah umah Amet sbb Aspa pun da lama tak jumpa Amet. Mkn lagi kat situ... and Aisy seronok berkawan dgn Farah, the eldest child of the family.Cam tak sangka pule dorang boleh geng hoho...tapi malangnya...i think Aisy geram with the younger child (anak amet ni ada 2), die gi gigitnye jari budak tu...aduh menangis sakan le budak tu...ahahahha...anak mak anak mak..nasib baik baik tade ape2...ganas juge Aisy ni...

Anyway balik Aisy terus flat..sbb berjln 1 hari(pagi2 da keluar pasai nak kejar bege free Mcd punya psl..haha) and main..nasib baik.Kami pun penat...and sume flat...ZzzZZzzzz sampai pagi esok kami bangun lambat gi ofis...

Kami gi TM Nite on 19/4/08. First time aku gi hoho and looking forward to go. I dragged along Aspa(my lucky star) sbb ada lucky draw..and was hoping Aspa would bring the luck to us... .Tapi kami hanya dpt Parkson RM50 voucher...ok le tuuuu...dari tak dpt ape kan?Tee hee.
Tapi grand prize die mmg best gile..trip for 2 to Paris, trip for 2 to Korea and trip for 2 to Bali...syioknyeeeeeeeeeeee kalau dpt!!!

To me cam best juge le TM nite...the venue though quite far tapi I think sesuai for the event.Yg bestnye no formal dinner, datang2 terus makan buffet style..and food die ok le..walaupun tak byk choice..tapi ok la.So mkn merata2 and paling best I think the fruit dip choco..siap ada small choco fountain agi...hehe

7.45pm baru start the function le...sume masuk hall and the event starts. Aku ingat TM star cam poyo je singers die... tapi to my surprise...the singers were very2 good...especially the winner of the TM star...mmg power suara dorang...siap boleh nyanyi berganding ngan Siti agi.
By the way, Siti Nurhaliza was our guest singer for the nite. Aspa yg selama ni tak suka Siti kate mmg Siti ni power suara die nyanyi live...jgn jatuh chenta sudah ye Aspa...

By the way, the highlight of the nite was actually the performance done by the CEOs.Cam tak sangka dorang boleh main muzik and also dato wahid menyanyi..live agi!!tapi mmg amaze and respect gak le to this ppl... .

Kami balik pukul 1 pagi...ahahahha..tapi tak rase mengantuk pun..1 thing I realized on that day...ada 2 org pakai baju sama ngan aku...dem!!!
Lesson of the story...dun put on baju cheap2 camni to attend function cam ni.....sbb apa end up u will find out girl next to u is wearing the same thing u're wearing...hohohoho..


Gomoksnye gueeeee..